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hypnosisguy
09-20-2007, 02:36 AM
I want to end all my desire for sex and sexual gratification. I do not want to experience any sexual impulses at all. I don't want to be have any desire to masturbate or have sex. I don't want to think about sex anymore. I don't want to fantasize about having sex. I want to be able to see an attractive woman and not be sexually aroused. I want to be numb to all sexual impulses, desires, cravings. I don't want to feel anything towards sex.
I feel like sex destroys my life. I don't want it, I don't need it, but the urge is still there. I want it completely gone. I want to be like a infant, who has absolutely no knowledge of sex. I want all my sexual urges to be erased. I want all my knowledge of sex to be erased.
Is it possible to get results with hypnosis?
Henrik
09-20-2007, 03:43 AM
Why? .
You feel that sex has destroyed your life, and as a result you decided your best choice is to eliminate sex from your existance.
From the two very basic choices:
1. Learn to have sexual desire and enjoy it in a healthy way ...
2. Eliminate sexual desire altogether ...
You choose the latter.
What makes you so sure that is the best choice for you?
skip
Simon
09-20-2007, 06:29 AM
I can see a possible problem here, because you prescribed the "medicine" for yourself. In your case, you think that eliminating your sexual desire will help you solve deeper issues, the elimination process being your medicine.
It would seem as if your desired outcome is to get rid of the desire for sex, but as skip pointed out, you want to achieve the desired outcome by eliminating your sexual desire, which is not necessarily a wise step to take.
Terry
09-20-2007, 08:58 AM
Hypnosis NO, surgery YES....
Poodle
09-20-2007, 06:53 PM
that a psychiatrist could get rid of it quickly. :eek:
Connie
09-21-2007, 08:26 AM
1. Learn to have sexual desire and enjoy it in a healthy way ...
This gets my vote, too. Think about this and what it would mean to you.
I want to end all my desire for sex and sexual gratification. I do not want to experience any sexual impulses at all. I don't want to be have any desire to masturbate or have sex. I don't want to think about sex anymore. I don't want to fantasize about having sex. I want to be able to see an attractive woman and not be sexually aroused. I want to be numb to all sexual impulses, desires, cravings. I don't want to feel anything towards sex.
I feel like sex destroys my life. I don't want it, I don't need it, but the urge is still there. I want it completely gone. I want to be like a infant, who has absolutely no knowledge of sex. I want all my sexual urges to be erased. I want all my knowledge of sex to be erased.
Is it possible to get results with hypnosis?
Yes. But no ethical hypnotherapist would help you render yourself assexual.
Problem is that sex is not just sex. It has repercussions and effects in many important aspects of your life and in your relationship with others. You are in pain at the moment and angry so I would suggest that before you try to remove all sexual impulses you talk it over with someone you trust and then get advice from a professional - either a psychologist or a clinical hypnotherapist.
Strangely enough I think I understand where you are right now - sex can be a burden in all sorts of ways, but it can also be a joy in others if you are in control. Hypnotherapy can help you gain that control.
You might find that you would prefer the joy of control to the vacuum of abstinence and no-feeling, sooner or later.
Jack
Jack is exactly correct when he said, "Problem is that sex is not just sex." When a person is sexually aroused, there is a flow of hormones and other biochemicals in the body that enhance health. Getting rid of the drive for sex will have an effect on other drives. Recent studies even show that not having sexual urges and practices in men can result in an increase in prostate cancer.
So as Jack wrote, "Yes [it's possible]. But no ethical hypnotherapist would help you render yourself assexual." It's just too dangerous to your health.
Merlin
09-22-2007, 10:26 AM
See an MD
Can you say castration?
speechpatterns
11-24-2007, 06:13 AM
Is it what you want? What you really,really want ?The Meditation Master at xxxxxxxxxxx.com would no doubt advise de-hypnosis as a solution to your particular problem.
And what, pray tell, is 'de-hypnosis' apart from an attempt at spamming?
Jack
Henrik
11-24-2007, 08:37 AM
'de-hypnosis' is more recently known as 'the-hypnosis' which is a is a little purple beast living throughout South-East Asia. It is actually a clone between a mosquito a mars modded radio and a very rare specie of dwarf elephants. It is widely popular in Bangkok Food Courts and is best served with a Tiger. Or five or ten.
Poodle... Thank you for PM. My PM box is full. I will get back to you :)
Henrik
Poodle
11-24-2007, 11:47 AM
de-hypnosis verb: To intentionally remove all TV and radio, print and viewed print programming from the mind together with all political speeches. May also include all spoken words from anyone thus rendering one mind-dead.
de-hypnosis verb: To intentionally remove all TV and radio, print and viewed print programming from the mind together with all political speeches. May also include all spoken words from anyone thus rendering one mind-dead.
Thank you Henrik and Pood for your definitions. I am still having trouble with a 'mars modded radio', however, and eating more than one tiger at a time is not ecologically sound (unless you greatly dislike tigers) so I think on balance I must accept Pood's version wildly impossible though it might seem.:eek:
Jack
pmdigi
11-24-2007, 05:17 PM
De-hypnotize from limiting beliefs; re-hypnotize with empowering beliefs.
Nigel H
11-25-2007, 07:04 AM
I agree with others above who have suggested that what would be more suitable is to remove the negative anchors/assossiactions that you have with sex to allow you to feel more comfortable about sex, as you think about it now.
As you look back on your sexual experience as it happened in the past and learn the lessons that have been presented to you, so that you can apply them to your life now, you will begin to notice that sex may be fun, or enjoyable, or any number of new descriptions that you can apply to it, to ensure you know that it is worth retaining in your life. What would it be like when you have made those changes, now?
Whether you are sexually active or not is not the real issue, perhaps the real issue is how you have created certain circumstances with your use of sex and the affect they have had on your emotional make-up. Deal with the causes of those issues and you will be able to have sex comfortably knowing that is good for you emotionally/physically/spiritually etc etc
:rolleyes:
Terry
11-25-2007, 08:12 AM
I certainly understand the feelings behind this question, even as I consider them to be shallow, and beneath contempt..
The poster is refering to sex as so many do, as a means of self gratification, and nothing more. I see sex as the means werebye I had four wonderful kids, and now many wonderful grandchildren who love me as I love them. Finally, a wonderfull little boy who is not yet old enough to say, "great grampa", so he calls my son and I "grampa" and has no problem differentiating between us either....
With such differing outlooks, it would be strange if I had any empathy with the question. I would however like to understand what is behind it...
Kaizen
11-26-2007, 12:59 PM
There's got to be some specific negative associations to sex for him. That's what he really wants to get rid of IMO. But he thinks he's going to achieve that by getting rid of any emotion associated to it.
I'd like to know how, specifically, sex distroys his life.
Lucidsun
02-28-2008, 10:52 PM
Yeah I have the same goal as the Ts, I would like to get rid of all my sexual urges, not have a drive at all. No feelings or thoughts about it.
How would I use to hypnosis to accomplish this.
Easy!
Find an unethical and unscrupulous hypnotist who is more interested in just taking your money than in actually helping you. Such a person will not only screw you up to achieve this unecological goal, but will also help you lose weight---from your wallet.
Poodle
02-29-2008, 09:58 AM
Can you say CASTRATION. Find an unscrupulous MD. Oh, wait a second. We don't do that to people, you would need to find an unscrupulous Vet but then also a Lobotomy may do the trick too. What do you say? :p
Terry
02-29-2008, 10:56 AM
:D I am usually the unkind one who points out all the flaws in a post, but in this case for some reason, I am inclined to be kind about it.....
First to "lucid sun", if you had not found your answers before posting, I see it as obvious that you SHOULD indeed do something to prevent you further poluting the gene pool... For you I suggest castration as the solution....
Hypnosis would not be effective since one requires the ability to concentrate and to understand instuctions, and your need to post after reading all that went before indicates you lack what is needed for hypnotherapy......
To the original poster, and to all who come here with questions, let me try to say this kindly. If your question clearly indicates that no thouht was given to it, and no previous attempt made to understand the problem via the reading of books etc, this also clearly shows a lack of mental processing and drive which precludes us from helping via therapy.... We can only help those of average inteligence or above, since the ability to obey simple instructions, and do so with understanding is an essential part of mind therapy of any sort. So often a question will show a lack of drive that suggests the mind has died from lack of use.....
MOST OF US DO NOT PRESUME TO BE ABLE TO RAISE THE DEAD.......:(
Now that was as kind as it gets, so be grateful..:D
Connie
02-29-2008, 12:20 PM
Easy!
Find an unethical and unscrupulous hypnotist
That's not so "easy" to do, is it? I don't know any. But, of course, I haven't looked for any, either. :p I think he should go for the unscrupulous MD instead.
I like Terry's reply best. I give that a thumb's UP.
Lucidsun
02-29-2008, 12:33 PM
Yeah let me make this a little clearer, I dont have the same issue of sex destroying my life. I just would like to remove sexual thoughts from my life as of this moment, since this is a Hynosis forum where people like you are so called experts, I thought you guys might be able to help me. Plenty of athletes restrain from sex for months prior to a fight or competition to help there mental preparedness. People meditate for months or years without sexual impulses or urges, if this is such a difficult concept for people on this forum to grasp, oh well.
...
Connie
02-29-2008, 12:41 PM
Sun...you just dropped several points on the "lucidity" meter.
Lucidity: characterized by clear perception or understanding; rational or sane: a lucid moment in his madness.
OK I'll play.
How, specifically, or as specifically as you can, is sex destroying your life?
Before I would be willing to undertake to 'help' you; I would need, for my own conscience, to believe that I am doing you a favor.
AND I CAN imagine several scenerios where sex or the desire for sex very well could ruin not only your life but that of others as well. You could be a serial rapist, for example.
So no, I wont categorically rule it out, but I will need some convincing, before I help you achieve what I think you are asking for.
And who knows perhaps you are really asking for something less than removal of all sexual desire. You might just be wanting more control over your emotions.
Who knows, until we dialogue a bit?
cheers,
skip
LS, granted, the advice given to you by several people may not be what you wanted to hear, but it is what you need to hear.
The athletes who restrain from sex (or so the myth goes) don't do it by simply removing sexual thoughts. Rather, they put intense focus on something else, their training. When they do have sexual thoughts--and trust me, they do!--they don't simply banish them. They turn that energy and passion and emotion into what they are doing. Napoleon Hill, in his books on how to succeed, promotes this attitude, too. It's not getting rid of sexual interest and energy, it's a redirection of it.
People who meditate for months or years without sexual impulses? Frankly, I doubt it. Many of the most spiritual meditation teachers who have claimed this, it turns out, were getting a little nookie when nobody was watching.
But let's assume this is true. You've left a great deal out. First, they've spent years in meditation before they have reached such an alleged state. I'm sure there are teachers who will gladly accept your money and let you spend years learning this. The other thing is that they don't merely turn off their desires. Instead, they have a goal and spend their time working toward that goal.
In a sense, then, both the athlete and meditator transmute their natural sexual energies, they don't lose it. So respectfully, your concept and understanding is completely wrong.
But just for argument's sake, let's assume that they are able to turn off their desires. In each case they have a reason for doing it. For the athlete it is to focus on training and for the meditator it is to focus on enlightenment. You've given no purpose at all.
Let me compare this to smoking cessation. There are poorly trained hypnotists who only give suggestions such as "you are not a smoker," and "you don't like smoking." But they have given nothing to replace the behavior. That leaves a big empty spot that needs to be filled, most often with the old behaviors. Professional, well-trained hypnotists give replacement behaviors. That way, the energy once directed toward smoking now goes toward new behaviors.
Why, that's awfully similar to the supposed athlete and meditator!
You asked if your mythical concept was difficult for the people on this forum to grasp. Not at all! But we also understand that what you described is only a myth. We don't force myths onto people. Rather, we assist in making ecological changes.
Frankly, I don't know of anybody who wants to end sexual desire. Period. However, from time to time, we do hear from people who want to end their sexual desire because of something.
What has happened is this: they have a behavior they don't like for some reason, and then, instead of discovering the real problem and solution, they self-diagnose and self-prescribe.
That's what you've done. You have diagnosed a problem from a position of lack of expertise. Then you have made a prescription (end sexual desire) which is the wrong treatment for an unknown problem.
What you're doing is like going to a doctor and asking for a cast to be put on your arm.
"Why?" asks the doctor. "Is it broken? Maybe I should look at it before we cast it."
Your response: "I just want a cast. Is this such a difficult concept for you to grasp?"
But the doctor insists and discovers that you have a compound fracture that has become infected. It needs surgery, antibiotics, and a cast. If he had followed your prescription your arm could have become permanently distorted, perhaps needed to be amputated, or even result in your death.
You asked a question and rather than give this long answer, I simply gave a short and direct answer to your question: find an unethical hypnotist to do it.
Now, after this long explanation above, here is a more accurate response: you don't know what you're talking about. Go to a professional, trained psychotherapist or hypnotherapist. They will be glad to help you find out what your issues are and help you change your behavior so you can change your goals in a reasonable, ecological and ethical manner.
To paraphrase your words, I hope this explanation was not too difficult of a set of concepts for you to grasp. If it is...oh well...
Poodle
02-29-2008, 07:05 PM
the Moderators had a red stamp they could put on posts like these that just says in big letters -- SPAM -- :(
Terry
02-29-2008, 08:09 PM
We can only hope it is spam.....
Spammers I can handle, I used to eat spam for lunch during the war. I can still eat them up fo breakfast..... NOW pass the eggs, I have developed an appetite for spam and eggs again....:D
Lucidsun
02-29-2008, 10:52 PM
OK I'll play.
How, specifically, or as specifically as you can, is sex destroying your life?
Before I would be willing to undertake to 'help' you; I would need, for my own conscience, to believe that I am doing you a favor.
AND I CAN imagine several scenerios where sex or the desire for sex very well could ruin not only your life but that of others as well. You could be a serial rapist, for example.
So no, I wont categorically rule it out, but I will need some convincing, before I help you achieve what I think you are asking for.
And who knows perhaps you are really asking for something less than removal of all sexual desire. You might just be wanting more control over your emotions.
Who knows, until we dialogue a bit?
cheers,
skip
Ok, Ill go into further detail so you can understand, though Ill probably receive other hostile responses to it.
For a long time I have been living with an uncomfortable affliction. I have seen 2 urologists and 2 dermatologists about it, neither one of them were able to help me. Both of them told me it wasnt an Std that was causing me pain, but they didnt know what it was that it wouldnt go away. I dont feel I need to get into to much graphic detail but I have a inflamed piece of skin on my manhood. Any time I get an erection it comes back and the pain is annoying. When I am occupying my mind with something else other then sex I completely forget about the pain. I dont even notice it.
Naturally it is impossible for me to have a love life like this. This has been going on for sometime now, and I feel that the only hope I have is me completely forgetting about sex for awhile. Its worth a shot, its better then just putting a gun to my head and ending my pain that way.
Thanks.
Lucidsun
02-29-2008, 11:29 PM
Yeah I would like to find a hypnotherapist or a psychotherapist but those things cost money, even more for me cause I dont have medical insurance.
I know I dont know to much about this problem (I do know some but not everything)thats why Im asking, and youve answered alot of my questions about it. I was looking for a response like this from the beginning, thanks.
Truthfully I probably should of typed this comment in a Meditation forum or self-hypnosis forum, rather than a regular hypnosis forum, cause its obvious that there is no one who can just click there fingers and make this problem go away. The solution lies within me, my control over myself and no one can magically make sexual my desire disapear. I got carried away though.
You say that boxers and athletes who restrain from sex do it because they are working towards a goal. I try to try the same thing but sometimes the stress eats me up inside so that I cant focus. I guess I need to find something that I love to do so I can occupy my time with that and put all my energy into it. Its just a difficult thing to do.
Oh and my comment about "being to difficult to grasp" wasnt directed at you. I knew your original comment had no ill intentions in it.
Ah, more information.
Just a question or so more before I form an opinion.
So you are actually wanting to rid yourself of the pain, until this inflamation 'goes away'?
And the pain subsides enough when you are not tumescent, that you can function normally? By that I mean you can urinate etc, and you can go about your daily business?
But that if you were to have an ercetion, the pain is back and you are very uncomfortable?
Do I have that correct?
What did the MD's recommend?
Did any of the MD's you consulted offer surgery, topical anesthetic, or other pain relief meds? If so what was your response and or what was your experience following their recommendations?
No one knew what it was, or what caused it, but everyone assumed it would 'go away' at some point? Is that correct?
How long ago was your last visit to an MD and has your condition changed since then?
thanks,
skip
LS, you added more information in your message to Skip. Now let me give you some straight answers.
1) We can't do hypnotherapy over the internet. Hypnotherapy is done in person.
2) We can't give you the many hours of in-person training you would need to become a hypnotherapist over the internet.
3) Since you have already been to doctors about this, in the U.S. it would be unethical...not to mention illegal...to treat you without a referral from an M.D.
4) You added more information in your message to Skip and above. Let me make this really, really clear to you:
Your situation has nothing to do with sex.
You have entirely misdiagnosed what is going on.
The treatment you have tried to prescribe for yourself is not only unecological,
but could end up causing a manifestation of the unwanted physiological response in another way that could be even more negative in your life.
5) I don't know how old you are. If you are in school, go to a counselor and ask for information about free psychological counseling. If you are out of school, go to a local welfare agency and find out about low-cost or free medical and psychological assistance.
6) If you don't have any money and don't have medical insurance, how were you able to go to "2 urologists and 2 dermatologists?" Something you're saying does not sound right.
7) You MAY be correct. The solution MAY be within you. But if it were as easy as that to resolve, don't you think you would have done so already? Because of your approach, I'm not sure you're being honest when you say you can't afford care, have no medical insurance, but have been to "2 urologists and 2 dermatologists." A professional hypnotherapist or psychologist may be able to help you.
8) Your latest post, where you have added more information, makes it clear that stress may be involved. Your misdiagnosis and incorrect prescriptive doesn't deal with this at all. But you continue to add more information making anything said here nothing more than guesses. If you visit a hypnotherapist in person, he or she would have been able to determine this in seconds rather than wasting your time and ours.
9) You are full of contradictions. My guess is that you have spent many hours and many weeks or months--as well as possibly experiencing one or more unhappy attempts at sexual activity. As a result of all this work and time and unhappiness and pain you have spent the time and effort to look us up, ask questions, reject reasonable solutions because they don't fit what you, in error, have created as your "only possible answer," and continue to add information and ask more questions. Yet, with all this time spent--meaning this is important to you--you seem unwilling to do the research needed to actually find assistance as I described above.
Okay. Let's say you don't want to go to a health care facility or a welfare agency. If this were really as important to you as you claim, you could get a second job or an after-school job. In two weeks you would have earned enough for a visit to most hypnotherapists or even psychologists. But you haven't done this.
Now, I'm sure you have some reasons why in all this time you haven't looked for financial aid, free counseling, or a second job to pay for help in getting what you need. I'm sure they're all valid reasons. But I've heard all of them hundreds of times before. I have another name for them:
excuses.
This is supposedly so very important to you but all you're willing to do is write to some anonymous people on the internet???? Come on and get real! If you had acute appendicitis what would you do, go to a hospital and have an appendectomy or make posts on a forum on the internet? And if you did make posts on the internet you know what advice you'd get? They'd say, "Go to a hospital immediately!" We're saying get appropriate help, too.
OK, CS. I've given you some very long, extensive answers. I've explained that we can't give you hypnotherapy over the internet. I've explained that we can't teach you hypnotherapy over the internet. I've explained that your diagnosis is wrong. I've explained that your prescription, to get rid of sexual desire, is wrong. I've explained that if you succeeded in your poorly thought-out goal it is possible that he problem will manifest in other ways, perhaps even more serious than your current situation. I've explained that since you've been to doctors for this it is unethical and possibly illegal for a hypnotherapist to treat you without a referral from an M.D. I've explained how you can get medical and psychological help. I've explained how, from your posts, it seems like stress is a contributing factor and you did not even take that into account.
Enough.
Contact someone locally. They can help. Tell them your financial situation. See if you can work something out.
There's no reason for me to respond any more. Sorry. Your further information, reasons, rationalizations, and excuses aren't going to entice me to any further responses.
But CS, let me tell you this: I had a problem very similar to yours. It first manifested as a cough that wouldn't go away. Made life as a telemarketer impossible. Later, my life changed and I worked as a professional musician playing keyboards. The cough went away, but I developed eczema that resulted in "inflamed skin" on my right hand. It itched, burned, flaked off, and was painful. I went to MDs and dermatologists. None of their treatments had any effect. Yet, I played. I focused completely on my playing. Sometimes, after playing a "set" of music I'd look down at my keyboard and see in the dim light that the keys were streaked in black. It was my own blood from where the skin on my fingers had split open.
No, I can't say that I have experienced what you're experiencing. But I have experienced something very much like it. My guess--and that's all it is because you haven't come to me, in person, as a client--is that your body is reacting to some sort of stress the same way mine did.
IF that's correct, then I have good news for you. What you're experiencing can be resolved quickly, easily, and permanently.
You've given reasons/excuses why you can't do what you need to do. Now I've given you a reason to know there is hope and the potential of a speedy and complete resolution. I've given you reasons for success. I've described how to go about it. I've given you ways to get it for free or how you can get enough money to make an important change in your life.
Now, the choice is up to you. Get help or keep making excuses/reasons for failure. Get assistance and have a happy and fulfilling future or stew in your own stress and unhappiness.
The choice is yours.
Lucidsun
03-02-2008, 05:30 AM
Sorry for not responding sooner.
Ah, more information.
Just a question or so more before I form an opinion.
So you are actually wanting to rid yourself of the pain, until this inflamation 'goes away'?
Sure ridding myself of pain would be good. Ive actually gotten kind of good at taking my mind off of it by controlling my breathing and relaxing all my body parts. And Ive found that adding more pain to my body, such as working out hard, or busting my *** in a hard activity working which causes bruising or sore muscles makes me take my mind off of it.
And the pain subsides enough when you are not tumescent, that you can function normally? By that I mean you can urinate etc, and you can go about your daily business?
Yeah I can function normally, only thing is I dont like hot showers, and I cant take warm baths, and I dont like to wear jeans, and of course I try to stay away from sexual thoughts which means avoiding women, but other than that, yeah normal.:D
But that if you were to have an ercetion, the pain is back and you are very uncomfortable?
not during but after yes,
Do I have that correct?
What did the MD's recommend?
Ive seen so many different Md about this problem that Ive given up hope in them. Ive had so many different doctors say different things. Ive pretty much come to the conclussion that my body should heal itself, some doctors have suggested this to me also.
Did any of the MD's you consulted offer surgery, topical anesthetic, or other pain relief meds? If so what was your response and or what was your experience following their recommendations?
Topical anesthetics and one said soaking it in ice-cold water would help. Umm, average, I dont know if I noticed a difference.
No one knew what it was, or what caused it, but everyone assumed it would 'go away' at some point? Is that correct?
They said it was just an inflammed skin, they didnt know what caused it and yes.
How long ago was your last visit to an MD and has your condition changed since then?
thanks,
skip
I wont go back to an MD, Ive seen the top Dermotologist in my area and he didnt help me out, so I am through with regular medical doctors like that.
My condition I dont like to think about it to much, Id like to forget it about.
Lucidsun
03-02-2008, 06:06 AM
Yeah, I will visit a Hypnotherapist in the future, regardless of whether this problem heals or not, since it is something that Im fascinated by.
My situation is a complex one, I had medical insurance up until the age of 22, and at that age everything's price went up, prescription pills, doctors appointments, you name it.
Just one question, I take it your hand healed through hypnosis, right? Thats probably how you got involved and interested in becoming a hynotherapist?
LC, there is nothing done while under hypnosis that cannot be done while conscious. Hypnosis, in many cases, just makes it easier.
The inflammation of my hand ceased when I learned the real cause and the lessons it provided. It did not have to do with hypnosis.
This can be accomplished today in minutes using such techniques as "regression to cause," Parts Therapy, Time Line Therapy, etc. For me, it took some 30 years because I didn't have the knowledge or tools to change my behavior. I obtained those tools through years of study and the knowledge, by accident, from my mother. Therapies such as described above can give a person those tools in a very short time.
In my case, a "part" of me was declaring I needed attention after the death of my father when I was 5. The way it got attention was by producing a physiological problem. When it first manifested as environmental allergies, I was rushed to the hospital on several occasions. Now that's attention. When it shifted to skin problems on my hand, again I was taken to doctor after doctor and received treatment after treatment. (Have they place you under an ultraviolet light, yet?)
When it was accidentally revealed to me that the first instance of this took place just one week after my father's sudden death, my mind instantly understood that I had been needing attention, needed to make sure I wasn't abandoned, etc. As an adult and understanding the principles of self-reliance and how the entire process of growing up features what Jung called individuation, I realized that in this aspect I had not grown. By accepting independence and personal responsibility I no longer needed the attention of others. This vibrated to my core, and as a result, that part of me that had sought attention and assurances that I would not be abandoned could cease what what it thought was necessary (and had initially worked quite well) and join with other parts to ecologically advance my well-being.
"I wont go back to an MD, Ive seen the top Dermotologist in my area and he didnt help me out, so I am through with regular medical doctors like that. My condition I dont like to think about it to much, Id like to forget it about."
I wouldnt categorically rule them out. But that is me, and my philosophy of keeping my options open.
My last question was really critical and Im sorry I didnt express it well.
How long has it been since you last saw an MD about this condition, AND has the condition improved, gotten worse, pretty much the same?
I suppose I really want to know if their advice was of any help at all. How long did they feel the condition would take to clear up?
Oh and a couple of other things.
Did you change your laundry detergent and stop using fabric softners?
cheers,
skip
Merlin
03-02-2008, 05:31 PM
They don't elimimate the sex drive, they refocus the energies.
Merlin
03-02-2008, 05:33 PM
Wouldn't you prefer to not have that issue?
Lucidsun
03-03-2008, 07:34 PM
"I wont go back to an MD, Ive seen the top Dermotologist in my area and he didnt help me out, so I am through with regular medical doctors like that. My condition I dont like to think about it to much, Id like to forget it about."
I wouldnt categorically rule them out. But that is me, and my philosophy of keeping my options open.
My last question was really critical and Im sorry I didnt express it well.
How long has it been since you last saw an MD about this condition, AND has the condition improved, gotten worse, pretty much the same?
I suppose I really want to know if their advice was of any help at all. How long did they feel the condition would take to clear up?
Oh and a couple of other things.
Did you change your laundry detergent and stop using fabric softners?
cheers,
skip
About 3 months, and the condition hasnt gotten better, at least I dont think it has. But like I said I dont like to think or stress over it so its impossible for me to tell.
Helpful, I guess a little, the last dermotolgist told me to see a psychiatrist about this problem, that it was mental. And no doctor has had a clue how long it would last for.
Lucidsun
03-03-2008, 07:38 PM
Wouldn't you prefer to not have that issue?
Im not sure what you mean?
Lucidsun
03-03-2008, 07:44 PM
Intersting story,
Oh and Don, I apologise about me continually quoting others long posts, Ill try to kill that habit.
azygous420
03-06-2008, 07:29 PM
My suggestion would be to use hypnosis to rid yourself of all the "destructive" aspects of sexual desire in your life. It would be good to use hypnosis to replace these with positive notions that sex become less of the drive of your life but a desire that only comes when it is part of a healthy relationship where it is appropriate and both you and your partner can benefit emotionally from it. Sometimes it may be a necessary aspect of a relationship, I think, and to rid all desire could destroy something good in your life. I feel it can be good to use hypnosis to let sex take a back seat to a personal attraction on a level of personality compatibility.
I too feel that sex is destructive in my life, so I have lost desire to seek a relationship, and this I fell could be degrading on my esteem and emotional wellbeing. I think that we can all grow to simply realize the positive aspects of a relationship devoid of sex, because sex is not what its even about unless you make it that way. My vote is to not completely destroy the motivation but to realize it has a place and time but it should not be the driving factor in your life, and this I feel can be very helpful.
If you however choose to destroy all desire for sex, I'm sure it is entirely possible to do it with hypnosis.
Good luck in your explorations of the mind.
-Azygous