View Full Version : Fear of success/setting myself up for failure
Unregistered
07-06-2004, 05:04 PM
I have a confidence problem, although you would not be able to tell that from the surface. I am finally at a point of finishing school (4 years later) that should only have taken 1 year-Techniqual Cerificate and State Board Certif. There has been one reason or another I had to stop or switch schools. Some reasons being vaild and some I just plain made excuses. I am naturally talented in the profession I will be going into and I have a HUGE fear that I will sabotage my career. I am smart and easy to be with but I struggle almost everyday with the "me" inside. I feel like a fraud, failure and extermely transparent- and soon everyone will be able to *see* me the way I see myself. I have a hunger for success in finance, family and interself. I have felt that I'm destined for good things but my negative voice- I believe holds me back. I was always told I would not amont to much as a kid. Would hyponosis help and person like myself? I have always been curious to try but I am afraid of being taken advantage of? I have found the website useful! Thank you in advance for any information!
Unregistered
07-06-2004, 07:30 PM
wow ! - look at all the positive voices you have mentioned learning, and being inside you already : naturally talented, being smart, and easy to be with, curious to try, you find useful information helping you further, & you are destined for more good things !
What other positive assets can you think of, that you have gained over the years ? ... it helps some people to write their positive qualities down, and rehearse them over & over - until you realize it being to your advantage to prefer listening to positive voices, especially in fun ways ...
Another thing that will help you is choosing 'specific' goals you find personally exciting, which motivate you or you feel drawn towards - perhaps something you feel passionate about, others may find helpful as well ?
Think about how you can also learn to kinesthetically-anchor any good pleasurable states-of-mind successfully, such that in the event another person behaves negatively towards yourself, you will be well prepared, and even immune to foolish negativity.
Believe in yourself, for you were made to succeed and win !
Yes, another hypnotic cheerleader can additionally help you. Yet, you are already well on your way... Enjoy yourself :-)
Agawan
Merlin
07-06-2004, 07:32 PM
Yup
Hypnosis is excellent for what you seek!
Unregistered
07-06-2004, 11:01 PM
Since I am new to this arena, I was wondering would a help with boosting my self image be only a couple of sessions? A few hours at a time? How much does that generally run? Does it depend on your location (city & state)? I have read about the question to ask when *interviewing* for an appointment, so I will make sure follow those guidelines.
Unregistered
07-06-2004, 11:01 PM
Since I am new to this arena, I was wondering would help with boosting my self image be only a couple of sessions? A few hours at a time? How much does that generally run? Does it depend on your location (city & state)? I have read about the question to ask when *interviewing* for an appointment, so I will make sure follow those guidelines.
Kelli in Cali.
07-06-2004, 11:11 PM
Opps, I posted twice and I have now registered so I have a name.