Stammering

[rivum]

Dear Sir,
I am a 27 years old guy. I have a speech problem called stammering for the last 13 years. It happens due to lack of confidence. Actually in reality, I can take all things bravely. But since I suffered a lot from my childhood, so probably because of that reason, my subconscious mind is not confidence. In 1995, I went to a stammering cure centre who taught me some speech theraphy and I was cured temporarily. But after some months, it was developed again. And now, those speech therapies can't do any good to me. I tried it.
It is said that "Stammering is from mind, not from the mouth. It occurs due to lack of confidence." So in order to cure me, I tried to improve my confidence. But my problem is that , at present my condition is very bad. I have a good academic qualification. It is not a problem to me in normal case, to get a good job. But because of this problem, I can't get any yet. I have big dreams for me. But is seems that all will go to vain. So for this reason, I can't develop confidence into me. But with this problem, I don't think it is possible to get a job.
I tried auto-suggestion to give me confidence and the belief that stammering is curable. But by trying to do it, my problem multiplied . And also, after some times of doing auto-suggestion, I can't able to do it consciously. I started to do it mechanically, which is of no use.

My Question
1. What should I do you think ?
2. If you please say me the exact method of auto-suggestion.
3. I need to increase my confidence and the belief that stammering is curable. Because belief is also supreme and is very important I think. How can I do that ? Is there any other easy process ?
4. Do you think that hypnosis will do good to me ? If yes, then please say me the exact way of doing hypnosis.
5. Can I cure myself within the next 1 month ? Actually I want to get cure immediately. I want to get a job very badly.

Please answer of my questions. I will wait for the reply.

Thanking you
Rivu Majumder
India

[Don]

Namaste, Rivu.

As you know, you've been trying for years to consciously make a change. The effects of all that work have been temporary or ineffective. That's because all real changes comes through the unconscious.

Hypnotherapy is a very good way to help access your unconscious and create change. Is your problem confidence? Maybe. But I'm not there and the determination of the cause needs to be done in person. Is it not possible that there is another cause?

Can the cure take place in one month? Possibly. Every person is a unique individual. Some may take less time. Some may take more.

So here's the good news: Hypnotherapy can provide quick and inexpensive relief. Now here's some reality: quality hypnotherapy is not done from reading a book and doing a bit of autosuggestion. However, if you find an experienced hypnotherapist in your area, he or she should be able to help you quickly.

[Merlin]

My Question
1. What should I do you think ?

Find a good hypnotist.

2. If you please say me the exact method of auto-suggestion.

We cannot. We do not know the cause.
*maybe* it is a confidence issue, maybe not.

3. I need to increase my confidence and the belief that stammering is curable. Because belief is also supreme and is very important I think. How can I do that ? Is there any other easy process ?

Again the answer is:
find a skilled hypnotist.

4. Do you think that hypnosis will do good to me ?

Yes, if the hypnotist is any good.

>If yes, then please say me the exact way of doing hypnosis.

Find a telephone directory.
Look under hypnotist.
Call the hypnotist.
Ask if they can help with stammering (not all hypnotists are qualified for this.
Ask for references.
Check the references
Repeat above until you find a good hypnotist.
Make an appointment.

5. Can I cure myself within the next 1 month ?

With skilled help, *probably* yes.

Actually I want to get cure immediately.

Don't we all? :)

I want to get a job very badly.

I wish you success