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Unregistered
05-13-2004, 08:01 PM
Anybody have a script to stop premature ejaculation?
Unregistered
05-13-2004, 09:09 PM
It is not a script that is needed, but a hypnotherapist.
joethelayperson
05-14-2004, 12:10 AM
Come again?
No the amount of requests and the form in which they are being posted is getting a little silly (imo)
I admit that I have asked for 'free' info on here and received such numerous times but I would like to think that my questions were worded more appropriately than
'can somebody give me a script to help with -x-'
If you are 'trained' as a hypnotherapist then you really should be questioning your abilities if you need to ask so many questions
and seemingly need help with relatively simple scripts. In fact, whilst we all have to learn, you really shouldn't be helping people until you have developed the ability to 'think on your feet' and alter your interventions and language (both verbal and non verbal) as the situation dictates. You do not know how the client is going to react to a phrase or even voice tone and if you are reliant on scripts, then you might run into trouble.
If you are not trained as a hypnotherapist, you have no right or experience to be attempting to treat others or asking for 'scripts'.
I admit, I am now at a stage where foolishly or not, I am attempting various self help interventions, due to financial constraints and desperation.
In my defense, I believe that my knowledge of hypnosis is reasonably sound and I realise that I should not be working with others at all.
I believe I have a grasp of hypnosis and enough knowledge about psychology to at least form my own scripts, in a manner that should avoid newbie mistakes and I believe that my knowledge base is such that the worst I can do for myself, is to obtain NO results at all.
I am satisfied that I can make a basic script and that it would be worded in a way that would not cause any problems. I would not attempt to do this to anybody else and I would still prefer to meet a hypnotherapist and participate in proper therapy if that choice were available to me
(I would still prefer to attend a qualified hypnotherapist but to date nobody has had me reach the level required to affect the changes I require and I am plain broke....with little opportunity of any new money in the short to medium term)
Joe
joethelayperson
05-14-2004, 03:42 AM
In hindsight, I am sorry for the aggressive and intolerant way I responded earlier
But please take the advice on here and rather than attempt to word such a 'script' yourself.....if your knowledge is limited so you require this help, the best thing you could do for your friend would be to refer them to a hypnotherapist with more experience
I know I am hypocritical in saying this to you, and yet attempting to treat myself but I have at least tried the Hypnotherapist route in the past and would do again, if and when finances allow
joe
Steve
05-14-2004, 01:58 PM
hello,
Scripts are a good starting point for any hypnotist. Although reading a script is bad, getting a script to see how others have done it and following it as a guideline can be good. As long as it is understood the script is a guideline and not the fix. If you go over the scripts at http://www.hypnosis.com/trance/scripts00.html they may give you some ideas.
What is your definition of premature ejaculation? I've had some people complain of this when they can have intercourse for half an hour or longer. To most people that would not be called "premature" at all. Also, has this person had a complete physical and urological exam? He should have that first.