View Full Version : Hypnosis/NLP for ..'seduction' purposes??
MasterxMagus
09-06-2009, 12:50 PM
I've been real interested in this mentalist mind over matter/psychology stuff for a long time now.. and over the past couple years I've personally been implementing much hypnosis/NLP techniques which I learned from .. ...... .. into my work environment as I work heavy in sales where being skilled in influence/persuasion is absolutely necessary to be successful.. and since I've been using these techniqes on a daily basis I've seen incredible progress and success in my career and many other aspects of my life. So I know this stuff is for real, but my question is... Can these same types of techniques be used in the same manner to improve your love/sex life as well?? How might the implementation of them be different for example from the type of uses I've mentioned?? Any advice/comments would be appreciated.. Thanks!!
I'm inclined to think that the above post is a (not so clever) spam. He posted it twice, here, and at least once on another website's forum. I deleted the URL to the commercial site as we are a non-commercial forum. No ads (even for our own products).
Still, people may want to respond to the question.
My response: No. They will in no way "improve your love/sex life." Love is an interrelationship that required communication, not "influence/persuasion." Sex is a physiological activity that is not effected by influence/persuasion.
Can you use the techniques of hypnosis/NLP to screw with people and take advantage of them? Possibly. If you know what you're doing.
I happened to watch a show on MTV which had a supposed expert calling himself "mystery" giving personal instructions to a group of losers...I mean students...and they were so busy trying to use his techniques that they were enhancing their loserhood and not getting any dates.
Being trained in NLP can help with issues of self-esteem and your ability to freely/easily communicate with others. That will certainly help you far more than trying tricks to influence/persuade. Taking a course in Tantra will do more for your love/sex life than all of the NLP/hypnosis courses in the world.
Connie
09-06-2009, 05:31 PM
I guess there will always be this flux of misguided souls who think "tricks" and covert manipulation is the way to initiate and maintain a relationship. Pathetic!
Yes of course they work.
What works, works.
If you can ifluence someone to 'feel good' about buying your product, you can influence someone to feel good about being in your comapny.
The question is sustainability.
Will your buyer get 'buyers remorse'?
The other question is where does influence become manipulation and what level of manipulation is unethical.
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Poodle
09-06-2009, 06:25 PM
We must be making the "Forums" today. I saw it too.
It's only MHO that the 'buyer' will definitely get "buyers remorse". Shouldn't take too long to figure it out either. Very, very sad commentary when one has to resort to 'tactics' for a possible love/sex partner/relationship. The guru of the love/sex tactics couldn't even keep his girlfriend let alone teach others how.
I have heard or read that pig urine is a very powerful phermone for females. Maybe you should just take a bath in it and find out what happens :rolleyes:
Pood
Yes guys should just stick to flirting, good grooming, chocolate, flowers, and candle lit dinners, and leave 'tactics' out of it.
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Natura
09-07-2009, 06:34 AM
Yes, you could definetaly use it BUT not to make someone like you, it could work but is short term fix. You wouldn't be solving the cause only curing the problems.
It is same as for example someone has bad diet, don't excercise and he get rid of fat by surgeon.
NLP and Hypnosis could help you make you more richful person. When you are richful person who has richful reality, other people will want to be part of it.
Merlin
09-07-2009, 11:59 AM
an inflatable doll works better for that of love
Connie
09-07-2009, 02:41 PM
Yes guys should just stick to flirting, good grooming, chocolate, flowers, and candle lit dinners, and leave 'tactics' out of it.
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I wonder how I found my guy (married 23 years now!) because we had very little of all that. I did buy him chocolates early in the relationship, however. :)
Poodle
09-12-2009, 11:06 AM
Itsey bitsey spider went up the water spout. Down came the rain and washed the spider out. Out came the sun and dried the water out = knight in shining armor ;)
Pood
Yes of course they work.
What works, works.
If you can ifluence someone to 'feel good' about buying your product, you can influence someone to feel good about being in your comapny.
The question is sustainability.
Will your buyer get 'buyers remorse'?
The other question is where does influence become manipulation and what level of manipulation is unethical.
skip
It could be me, but usually I try to influence someone to feel good in my company. Or do I have to make them feel bad? And I know a lot of girls (cannot tell for males) feeling good about partner having money. And others positively influenced by a good body. Good point about the ethical/unethical, but apart from the obvious, lines are not so clear.
Vin
Poodle
09-12-2009, 02:32 PM
Let's face facts here. You are an Italian which is a whole 'nuther ball park.
Pood :D
Let's face facts here. You are an Italian which is a whole 'nuther ball park.
Pood :D
You are right dear Poodle, you are definitely right!
Vin
Connie
09-12-2009, 11:30 PM
Itsey bitsey spider went up the water spout. Down came the rain and washed the spider out. Out came the sun and dried the water out = knight in shining armor ;)
Pood
Today I "cured" a girl's spider phobia. Easiest thing I've ever done. About 15 minutes. A simple anchor collapse. Then we went into the garden to find spiders and test it. She felt fine! "calm, in control, rational, no big deal...etc." She stood leaning face first into a spider web with a nickel sized spider on it. Staring. Telling me she felt none of the prior "heebie jeebies." VERY Happy....me, and her. She imagined a spider touching her, crawling on her, in her bed. Nothing!
Meanwhile, I was testing my own former spider phobia. Nothing. Nada. Neutral. Michael Bennett fixed it for me, while giving a lecture 3 years ago and not even talking to me (or so I thought at the time). Still going strong! :)
Right Vin the lines arent clear.
It is ALL mnipulation or attempted manipulation.
And just because it IS manipulation doesnt mean it is inherently bad.
I want people to like me. So I use things that help them come to a good opinion of me.
Some are considered ok, others might be considered border or even over the line. Depends on who is doing the judging.
And some people would judge by my intentions, if my intentions are 'good' in their eyes then I am given more latitude in my manipulative behavior. "He meant well."
IMO that is a really dangerous way to evaluate peoples behavior.
Ultimately that leads to things like torture to 'save their soul' as was routinely done in the inquisition.
But by the same token, there doesnt seem to be any set specific line. On one hand there are things that SEEM definately OK, and on the other things that are definately not OK.
In reality it is mostly a large grey area and each individual believes they know where the line really is.
That is why ethics discussions, like politics, and religion, are generally banned from lists such a this one.
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