View Full Version : Female "frigidity"
master_debator
07-23-2009, 09:56 AM
Hey everyone. There is this girl I know who has a hard time being able to reach orgasms, mainly with guys. She said that she can reach orgasms via herself, but when it comes to guys she gets frustrated. I have suggested that she goes to a hypnotherapist to help her with her this. Considering its not a medical issue, as she can reach orgasms in other contexts, what are some things that a competent hypnotherapist can do?
Poodle
07-23-2009, 01:23 PM
Send her to a competent Clinical Hypnotherapist, a/k/a CCHt's.
In the meantime you may want to stock up and read books on clinical hypnotherapy. It could be psychological or totally physical.
There was a female "sex Dr." that was recently interviewed about these types of issues. She has written a book but I didn't pay any attention to the title. Sorry!
:pood:
Connie
07-23-2009, 01:41 PM
It's not a difficult "fix." How do you feel? How do you want to feel? What's happening? What do you want to happen? We find out how she's representing the situation to herself, and help her alter those representations and hence her reality. It's SO EASY! Doesn't matter what the issue is, it's all the same "stuff." :)
I LOVE our work! Yesterday I got some wonderful feedback from a girl who had facial tics and neck jerks and other unwanted mannerisms. It had been going on for 30 years!!! Neurologistis didn't help her. Other therapists didn't help her. MDs and their drugs didn't help her. Attempted lifestyle changes for stress release didn't help her (decaf coffee, etc). Hypnosis/NLP helped her. Two sessions. :) The tic-ing has stopped completely.
Why do you assume she is the one who needs help?
Connie
07-23-2009, 09:19 PM
That's right!!! Our brilliant Skip always asks the best questions. :D
"Just lay back and think of England!"
Ruth2
07-24-2009, 10:58 AM
LOL, Skip!!!!!