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Connie
05-18-2009, 11:17 AM
Well, here's a story. :)
I had a new client (male) with impotence problems. (Official name of problem: situational stress. The situation is intimacy.) There's nothing physically wrong. He suffered unfortunate incidents with his first partner when he was young which traumatized him. We had one session on it, which went terrifically well, I thought. Anchor collapse on the anxiety, hypnotic blitz, metphor galore (I can't remember them all now, but I amused myself at the time) and more. So, he's been sending me emails all weekend, so excited with his SUCCESS! Every time he "gets intimate" with his partner, I get a report. :) I didn't ask for that, but it's very charming.
He made my weekend. And here's what he said to me:
"Thanks, Connie. You are a great partner in life changes."
Yayyy! That's why I love this work so much--helping people reach fantastic outcomes. And it's not just his life enhanced, but somebody else's as well. ;)
As gamers write:
WD!
(Well Done!)
:)
Connie
05-18-2009, 07:57 PM
Thank you, Don. It's hard to verbalize how HAPPY this work makes me...I spent decades doing mindless crap, now I get to have FUN! And help people.
Connie :love:s hypnosis.
Poodle
05-18-2009, 08:59 PM
I will not touch this period without a written medical referral. I have had them say one thing and it isn't "nonorganic". Just SOP here now. Keeps me and the Docs both happy and my clients are a definite win.
Pood :)
Connie
05-18-2009, 09:02 PM
I agree with you! I had worked with this man before on other things with great success, so I figured we were half way home to begin with. The focus of our work was the anxiety and fear!! We eased that, then, ta da, everything else started working just fine! He'd been to doctors over the years and they said it was not physical, but I didn't ask for "proof." Perhaps I should? I don't ever present myself as "medical" or make any promises of outcome, and that's in my written contract. This was changework based on anxiety, and the outcome was a happy one--less anxiety. What flows from that is what flows from that! :)
Mmmh, ok, the doctor says the cause is organic (I am not saying something dramatic), whatever that means, what kind of problems could you have by working on impotence problems? I mean, if we found that by collapsing anxiety and fear, the issue is resolved, what does it mean? If we found that by increasing the blood flow something miracoluos happen, what does it mean?
Vin
It means that you could be prosecuted for practicing medicine without a license. It means that you could cause a client not to treat an organic issues by disguising the symptoms. It means you are unethical and dangerous.
Connie
05-19-2009, 03:16 PM
Right! That's why we don't "treat" "impotence," we help with unwanted negative feelings such as worry. The NGH intake form calls it: "situational stress."
Don, I was discussing it not from a legal point of view.
Vin
It means that you could be prosecuted for practicing medicine without a license. It means that you could cause a client not to treat an organic issues by disguising the symptoms. It means you are unethical and dangerous.
Don, I was discussing it not from a legal point of view.
Vin
Well, communication is determined by the response one gets, so you question was not as clear as it might have been. But let's look at it again:
"... the doctor says the cause is organic..., whatever that means,..."
Respectfully, if you don't know what that means, LEAVE IT ALONE!
"what kind of problems could you have by working on impotence problems? I mean, if we found that by collapsing anxiety and fear, the issue is resolved, what does it mean?"
That would mean it wasn't organic. It would mean that you were practicing medicine without a license. It would mean the doctor would probably sue you for damages and the state would put you in jail for practicing medicine without a license.
However, let's assume that the cause WAS organic and you used hypnosis to "collapse anxiety and fear" to overcome it and were successful. What you could be doing is disguising other organic problems ranging from high blood pressure, diabetes, nerve damage, and pelvic trauma to high cholesterol or venous leaks. By disguising these your client might not get needed care leading to anything from more serious disease to amputation or even death.
"If we found that by increasing the blood flow something miracoluos happen, what does it mean?"
It means that you have overcome one problem. The question is, are you disguising something else? Are you creating a situation that is going to cause tremendous harm?
My friend, here is some simple advice: "Don't screw around with something you don't understand." Go watch Mickey in "The Sorcerer's Apprentice" section of the movie Fantasia. If you don't want to take this advice, the destruction you could cause will be on your conscience, not mine.
Don,
yes, I was not clear, but I was not polemic in my previuos post.
I was talking about an hypothetical case. If the issue is resolved, I think that it means: a) the issue was not organic and the doctor was wrong; b) the issue was resolved in spite of its organic origin. Are not we trying to cause sometimes a physiological response in hypnosis? Are not we trying to modify gene expression in hypnosis? How many succesful cases of recover from cancer had (or has) Steve Parkhill? Was he practicing medicine without a licence? By saving 4,000 and more lives, was he riskying to go to jail? (Yes).
I totally agree that is much better to stay on the conservative side. But I do not think that Parkhill must go to jail. Is there one doctor somewhere saying "you've got cancer, it is not benign, why don't you go see an hypnotherapist?"
Vin
Well, communication is determined by the response one gets, so you question was not as clear as it might have been. But let's look at it again:
"... the doctor says the cause is organic..., whatever that means,..."
Respectfully, if you don't know what that means, LEAVE IT ALONE!
"what kind of problems could you have by working on impotence problems? I mean, if we found that by collapsing anxiety and fear, the issue is resolved, what does it mean?"
That would mean it wasn't organic. It would mean that you were practicing medicine without a license. It would mean the doctor would probably sue you for damages and the state would put you in jail for practicing medicine without a license.
However, let's assume that the cause WAS organic and you used hypnosis to "collapse anxiety and fear" to overcome it and were successful. What you could be doing is disguising other organic problems ranging from high blood pressure, diabetes, nerve damage, and pelvic trauma to high cholesterol or venous leaks. By disguising these your client might not get needed care leading to anything from more serious disease to amputation or even death.
"If we found that by increasing the blood flow something miracoluos happen, what does it mean?"
It means that you have overcome one problem. The question is, are you disguising something else? Are you creating a situation that is going to cause tremendous harm?
My friend, here is some simple advice: "Don't screw around with something you don't understand." Go watch Mickey in "The Sorcerer's Apprentice" section of the movie Fantasia. If you don't want to take this advice, the destruction you could cause will be on your conscience, not mine.
Poodle
05-23-2009, 10:55 AM
Different countries have different laws. Don gave you the law in the USA. We no longer need hypnosis for cancer in case the news has not reached Italy yet so you can forget all about Parkhill. Science has managed a breakthrough that is permanent with 100% recovery for long life and it's impossible for the cancer to return to any other part of the body. It's a very, very simple matter of a blood draw and one thing changed.
You really need to understand the laws where you live and practice within the constraints thereof. We will take care of the USA. It would also be nice if you had clients so you could write about what you do instead of what others have done.
READ MERLIN'S FAQ'S AGAIN!
Pood :(
parsa
05-23-2009, 12:12 PM
Hi Pood,
May I ask what kind of treatment you are refering to?
Different countries have different laws. Don gave you the law in the USA. We no longer need hypnosis for cancer in case the news has not reached Italy yet so you can forget all about Parkhill. Science has managed a breakthrough that is permanent with 100% recovery for long life and it's impossible for the cancer to return to any other part of the body. It's a very, very simple matter of a blood draw and one thing changed.
You really need to understand the laws where you live and practice within the constraints thereof. We will take care of the USA. It would also be nice if you had clients so you could write about what you do instead of what others have done.
READ MERLIN'S FAQ'S AGAIN!
Pood :(
Dear Poodle,
was I suggesting going against the law? Was I talking about different law in differente countries? I made an hypothetical case, like: assume a spherical cow.
Also, I do not understand why you wrote "It would also be nice if you had clients so you could write about what you do instead of what others have done". I was participating in a discussion, and that's it. My first comment was about impotence and, while not being a doctor, I studied a little bit of physiology and so my first comment (simply the vast - and more - majority of cases is not organic). Not saying to go against the law, only hypothetical.
Then, I was a little provocative by saying that Parkhill had a huge record for cancer (not suggesting going against the law), just to make the point. If you don't like my posts, it's ok, you are far more experienced than me.
Finally, I did not hear about this miracoulous new treatment, there was a very interesting research done by Italians last week, but no miracles. Neither on sciencedaily.
And I do not understand why I need to read in this case Merlin's FAQ. I like it a lot, I read it often, but in this case I do not know.:confused:
Cheers
Vin
Ooops, I forgot. A friend of mine talked to me about having some problems with girls lately, in the bedroom specifically. He asked for help. He got it. No more problems. My strategy? I said: you know, it happens, sometimes. Now I will show you how can you regulate your physiology.
Vin
Connie
06-17-2009, 07:10 AM
I got more feedback from the client in my original post here. He's having a great outcome. :) I like to hear that. LOVE to hear that. He gave me a beautiful compliment, on my "effective help and intense caring." That's right, I do care. That's why I'm in the right profession for me!!
I wrote back, and said "keep it up!" ;)