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zarah
02-04-2005, 10:06 AM
Hi folks
I find this forum very interesting. I badly hope that you can help cause itīs urgent. In spite using hypnosis
and the power of mind for about two years, unfortunately the are not
any result desired. My main questions are wheter I can focus on many
different desires and wishes at the same time with the power of mind?:confused:
There are plenty spirituel books which warns that one has to
concentrate on only one goal to accomplish otherwise oneīs energy
will be dissipate and wasted. But the point is that all goals I want
to achieve are to me equal important, there is not the most
important. I want to achieve these different aims at the same time,
all together. So, is it possible to focus on many desires without
wasting energy and even losing it?
Thanks a lot for supporting me.:)
Zarah.
Neurotic1
02-04-2005, 11:15 AM
Hi
I imagine people here will have a variety of opinions. I believe that you can indeed concentrate on achieving success in several areas of your life, provided that the successes are not contradictory and are compatible with each other. If you use hypnosis to help you achieve this, linking different areas together might conceivably mean that if you do not get the results you wish in one area, that might have the potential to undermine your confidence in or pleasure of success in another area. Working on one area at a time may be more effective in avoiding confusion and not placing too many demands on yourself at once. However, I cannot see anything intrinsically wrong with working on several issues at once, provided you focus on the positive changes you have made. It might be useful to focus on each area you wish to improve in its own right.
There are many approaches. I think experiment and use what feels right and works for you.
Terry (existing)
02-04-2005, 05:24 PM
I have no idea what you are doing, but it certainly is NOT hypnosis. If it were you would have been successful in achieving all goals, or been well on the way to doing so in less than a month.
Merlin
02-04-2005, 07:42 PM
Zarah,
With the help of a hypnotist you could accomplish several changes/goals at once.
If this is a self-help thing, then one goal at a time is usually better for beginners. After you have experience and achieve several individual outcomes, then you can do two. Later three. Still later four, and so on.
It's just easier that way. Most people are more successful that way.
It's not a requirement. You can divide your attentions. But it's just easier for most people to do one at a time first.
Hello Zarah,
I tend to agree with Merlin (could be a first!), one at a time is usually better with self-hypnosis. There is also a danger of subconscious self-sabotage, but I have no idea if that is happening with you.
A qualified hypnotherapist could help you to deal with most of your problems, and possibly help you to improve your ability to deal with some of them using self-hypnosis. I'm not a great believer in the spiritual aspect of hypnosis, but would suggest that on a purely mechanical basis, this course might help. If you find hypnosis to be a spiritual experience, then of course I would not argue with your belief.
Two years is a long time, give yourself a pat on the back for perseverance, but see a professional.
Jack
TaffyE
02-05-2005, 06:21 PM
In addition to what Merlin has said, there is often a "domino effect" where dealing with one aspect results in other things falling into line with your objectives